Faith People Can Feel
Want to know more about Philemon 1–7? Explore the people, background, important words, and bigger story behind today’s passage.
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This is not another assignment, and you do not have to write an answer for every section. It is an optional guide designed to help you better understand Philemon 1–7.
Read the passage in your Bible first. Then listen to the audio or explore the sections below that interest you.
The Big Idea
Real faith can be seen in the way we love, encourage, and strengthen others.
See How the Passage Fits Together
These opening verses are more than Paul saying hello. They prepare us for everything that follows in the letter.
Meet the People in the Opening
Paul names several people because this personal letter also matters to a community of believers.
He writes while imprisoned because of his ministry for Jesus.
Paul’s trusted ministry partner joins him in the greeting.
A follower of Jesus whose home is used by the church.
Believers connected to Philemon and the church meeting in his home.
Why this matters: Philemon’s decision about Onesimus will not happen in secret. The whole church is learning what the gospel looks like in a difficult relationship.
Two Words Worth Understanding
Partnership
In verse 6, Paul describes a faith that is shared and active. Following Jesus connects us to His mission and to other believers. Faith is personal, but it was never meant to remain private.
Refresh
To refresh someone means to encourage, strengthen, or help that person feel renewed. Philemon’s love gave tired believers courage and relief.
Picture a Church Meeting in a Home
Early Christians often gathered in homes instead of church buildings like many churches use today. Philemon opened his home so believers could worship, learn, pray, and encourage one another.
That tells us something important about him: his faith affected his space, his possessions, and the way he served people. His home had become a place where others could meet Jesus and grow together.
Why Does Paul Begin with Encouragement?
Paul is about to ask Philemon to do something difficult: receive Onesimus differently. Before making that request, Paul reminds Philemon of the faith and love God has already produced in him.
This is not empty flattery. Paul is calling Philemon to live consistently with the person Jesus is shaping him to become. In other words: “You have refreshed others before. Now let that same faith shape this hard relationship.”
Think about it: How might remembering what Jesus has already done in you help when obeying Him becomes difficult?
Faith Becomes Visible
We are saved by trusting in Jesus—not by collecting enough good deeds. But when Jesus changes us, that change begins to show. Faith becomes visible when love becomes action.
Think about the difference between saying, “I care about people,” and actually noticing someone who feels left out. One is a statement. The other lets someone experience your care.
Philemon’s example asks us a simple question: Can anyone around me feel the difference my faith in Jesus is making?
One Question to Carry with You
If someone watched the way I treated people this week, what would they learn about my faith in Jesus?
Do not rush to give the “church answer.” Let the question help you notice where Jesus is already changing you and where you still need His help.
A Worship Playlist for Philemon
This playlist is inspired by Philemon, with songs about grace, forgiveness, freedom, reconciliation, and our new identity in Jesus. Use it as background music while you study, or listen closely and let the truths of God’s Word move from your head to your heart.
Open the Playlist in SpotifyStill Unsure About Your Next Move?
Your journal study is already complete—you do not need to repeat it. However, if you had difficulty identifying a My Next Move, the background you just explored may have given you a new idea. You are welcome to return to that section and add one practical response.
Explore All Philemon ResourcesRead the student audio transcript
Welcome to More Than Sunday Mornings Student Resources.
This is Study 1 of Philemon: “Faith People Can Feel.”
Today, we are exploring Philemon, verses 1 through 7.
You can use this audio instead of reading the full deeper-study page. You do not have to do both. The goal is simply to help you better understand the people, background, and important ideas in today’s passage.
If you have not already read Philemon 1 through 7, pause this audio, read the passage in your Bible, and then come back when you are ready.
Let’s begin by seeing how these verses fit together.
In verses 1 through 3, Paul greets the people receiving his letter.
In verses 4 and 5, Paul explains what he has heard about Philemon.
Then, in verses 6 and 7, Paul prays for Philemon and celebrates the effect his faith has had on other believers.
These verses may sound like a friendly introduction, but they are doing something important. Paul is preparing Philemon—and us—for the difficult situation he will address later in the letter.
First, let’s meet the people Paul names.
Paul introduces himself as a prisoner for Christ Jesus. He is imprisoned because of his ministry for Jesus, but Paul does not act as if his circumstances are outside God’s control. Even from prison, Paul continues encouraging believers and helping people follow Jesus.
Paul also mentions Timothy, one of his closest ministry partners.
The letter is addressed primarily to Philemon. Philemon is a follower of Jesus who appears to have a home large enough for a church to meet there.
Paul also greets Apphia and Archippus. They were believers closely connected to Philemon and the church meeting in his home. Some people believe Apphia may have been Philemon’s wife, but the Bible does not directly tell us that.
Finally, Paul greets the entire church that meets in Philemon’s home.
That detail is easy to pass over, but it matters.
Early Christians did not normally meet in church buildings like many Christians do today. They often gathered in someone’s home to worship, pray, learn about Jesus, share meals, and encourage one another.
By allowing the church to meet in his home, Philemon was using what he had to serve others. His faith affected his time, his space, his possessions, and his relationships.
It also means that Paul’s letter was not completely private. Other believers would hear it too.
The way Philemon responds to the situation involving Onesimus will teach the entire church something about the gospel.
Next, notice what Paul says about Philemon.
Paul tells Philemon that he regularly thanks God for him and remembers him in his prayers.
Why?
Because Paul has heard about Philemon’s faith in Jesus and his love for God’s people.
Philemon did not merely claim to believe in Jesus. His faith affected how he treated people. Others could see—and even feel—the difference Jesus was making in his life.
Verse 6 includes an important idea. Depending on your Bible translation, it may talk about the sharing, fellowship, or partnership of Philemon’s faith.
This means that Philemon’s faith was not supposed to remain private or inactive.
Following Jesus is personal because every person must trust Jesus. However, following Jesus is not meant to be private. Faith connects us to Jesus, to other believers, and to the work God is doing in the world.
As Philemon actively lived out his faith, he would grow in his understanding of every good thing believers have in Christ.
In other words, we often understand our faith more deeply as we put it into practice.
Then, in verse 7, Paul says that Philemon had refreshed the hearts of God’s people.
What does “refresh” mean?
It does not simply mean that Philemon gave someone a cold drink.
To refresh someone means to encourage, strengthen, comfort, or help that person feel renewed.
Imagine having a terrible day at school. Maybe someone embarrassed you, you failed a test, you argued with a friend, or you simply felt like nobody noticed you.
Then someone sits beside you, listens to you, encourages you, or reminds you that you are not alone.
That person may not be able to fix the entire situation, but you feel stronger because that person cared.
That is a picture of refreshing someone.
Philemon had become that kind of person for other believers. His love gave tired and discouraged people strength.
Now let’s go one step deeper.
Why does Paul begin his letter by encouraging Philemon?
Paul is about to ask Philemon to make a difficult decision involving a man named Onesimus.
We will learn more about Onesimus in the next part of the letter. For now, it is enough to know that something had gone wrong between Onesimus and Philemon. Their relationship was complicated and probably painful.
Before Paul makes his request, he reminds Philemon of the good work Jesus has already been doing in him.
Paul is not using fake compliments to manipulate Philemon. He is reminding Philemon of who he is becoming because of Jesus.
It is almost as if Paul is saying:
“Philemon, your faith has refreshed other believers before. Now you have an opportunity to let that same faith and love guide you through a much harder relationship.”
That helps us understand why verses 1 through 7 matter to the rest of the letter.
Paul will soon ask Philemon to apply his faith where it may be uncomfortable.
It is usually easier to love people when they are kind to us. It is much harder when someone has disappointed us, hurt us, or created a difficult situation.
But the gospel does not only change what we believe about God.
The gospel changes how we see and treat people—even when the relationship is complicated.
Here is the big idea for today:
Real faith can be seen in the way we love, encourage, and strengthen others.
This does not mean that we earn salvation by being nice or doing enough good things.
We are saved by God’s grace through faith in Jesus. However, when Jesus changes our hearts, that change begins to appear in our choices.
Real faith produces real love.
Real love moves toward people.
Before you return to your journal, consider one question:
If someone watched the way you treated people this week, what would that person learn about your faith in Jesus?
Do not rush to give the answer you think you are supposed to give.
Think honestly.
Where is Jesus already helping you love people well?
Is there someone around you who feels overlooked, discouraged, lonely, or left out?
Where do you still need Jesus to change your attitude or actions?
Use what you have learned to complete the “Think About It” and “My Next Move” sections in your journal.
Answer in your own words and choose one action you can realistically take.
Let’s pray.
Jesus, thank You for loving us and changing our hearts. Help us notice people who need encouragement. Let our faith become visible through the way we love, include, and strengthen others. Give us the courage to follow You even when loving someone is difficult. Amen.
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