Understanding the Bible
This post is part of our Understanding the Bible series—short, clear explanations of common questions, phrases, images, and themes found in Scripture.
The goal is simple: to help you read the Bible more clearly by explaining what the text says, what it meant in its original context, and why it still matters today.
These studies are designed for personal Bible reading, small groups, teaching preparation, or anyone who wants to grow in biblical understanding without needing technical training.
On this page:
- Quick Answer
- What Does 2 John 5–6 Say?
- What Does It Mean to “Walk”?
- What Are “His Commandments”?
- How Are Love and Obedience Connected?
- What Had They Heard “From the Beginning”?
- Is John Telling Christians to Keep the Torah?
- How Does Jesus Define Obedience?
- Does Obedience Earn Salvation?
- Truth, Love, and Obedience Belong Together
- The Gospel Connection
- What This Means for Us
- Key Takeaway
Quick Answer
In 2 John 6, John writes:
READ 2 JOHN 5–6
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When John says that Christians should “walk according to His commandments,” he is describing a life shaped by obedience to God.
In the Bible, “walk” is frequently used as a picture of someone’s way of life.
John is therefore talking about more than occasionally obeying a command.
He is describing the direction and pattern of the Christian life.
To “walk according to His commandments” means to live our lives in willing obedience to what God has revealed, with love for God and others at the center of that obedience.
This is especially clear from John’s immediate context.
Verse 5 emphasizes the command that believers “love one another.”
Then verse 6 explains:
“This is love, that we walk according to His commandments.”
John refuses to separate love from obedience.
Biblical love is not simply an emotion.
Neither is it defined entirely by what another person wants from us.
God defines what love is, and genuine love seeks to live according to what He has commanded.
We do not obey God instead of loving people.
Obedience to God teaches us what genuine love looks like.
At the same time, John is not teaching that Christians earn salvation through commandment keeping.
Throughout John’s writings, obedience is the fruit and evidence of knowing Christ—not the means by which sinners make themselves acceptable to God.
We obey because we belong to Christ.
And because we love Him, we increasingly desire to live according to His will.
What Does 2 John 5–6 Say?
John’s discussion of commandments appears in the middle of a tightly connected argument about truth, love, and obedience.
In verses 1–4, truth dominates John’s language.
Believers know the truth.
The truth abides in them.
And John rejoices when he discovers believers “walking in truth.”
Then John turns directly to love:
READ 2 JOHN 5–6
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Notice how closely John’s ideas fit together:
Verse 4: Walk in truth.
Verse 5: Love one another.
Verse 6: Walk according to His commandments.
These are not three unrelated instructions.
They describe different dimensions of the same faithful Christian life.
Walking in truth produces obedience.
Obedience includes loving others.
And genuine love operates within the boundaries of God’s truth.
For John, truth tells us what is real, God’s commands tell us how to live, and love shapes how that obedience is expressed toward others.
This becomes especially important because John is about to warn his readers about false teachers.
Beginning in verse 7, he describes deceivers who distort the truth about Jesus Christ.
That means verses 5–6 prepare us for an important lesson about love.
Christian love cannot mean unquestioningly accepting everything someone teaches.
If love means walking according to God’s commands, then love itself must remain governed by God’s truth.
John is preparing his readers to understand that they can genuinely love people while refusing to support teaching that contradicts the truth about Christ.
What Does It Mean to “Walk”?
John’s use of the word “walk” is important.
He is not primarily talking about physically walking from one place to another.
Throughout Scripture, walking becomes a picture of how someone lives.
Your “walk” is the direction, pattern, and conduct of your life.
John uses this same picture several times in his writings.
1 John 1:7
Believers are called to walk in the light.
1 John 2:6
Those who say they abide in Christ should walk as Jesus walked.
2 John 4
John rejoices when he finds believers walking in truth.
2 John 6
Christians are to walk according to God’s commandments.
Put these together and John’s meaning becomes clear.
Christianity is not merely agreeing with certain doctrines.
Truth is meant to shape life.
To “walk” according to God’s commands means that obedience becomes the continuing direction of our lives.
That distinction matters because Christians still sin.
John certainly knows this.
In 1 John, he warns Christians against claiming to be without sin and reminds them of God’s provision of forgiveness through Jesus Christ.
So “walking according to His commandments” cannot mean achieving sinless perfection.
Instead, John describes the characteristic direction of someone who genuinely belongs to Christ.
A believer may stumble while walking.
A believer may need correction.
A believer may struggle with particular sins.
But the direction of the Christian life is toward Christ and toward increasing obedience to Him.
John is describing direction, not perfection.
The question is not whether Christians ever stumble, but whether our lives are increasingly being shaped by the truth and commands of God.
This keeps obedience from becoming either legalistic or meaningless.
John does not say that obedience earns our relationship with God.
But neither does he allow someone to claim a relationship with God while treating God’s commands as irrelevant.
Those who know Christ desire to walk with Christ.
And walking with Christ necessarily changes how we live.
What Are “His Commandments”?
The word “commandments” can immediately raise another question:
Which commandments does John mean?
Is he referring to the Ten Commandments?
The entire Law of Moses?
Jesus’ commands?
Or God’s commands more generally?
The immediate context gives us an important starting point.
In verse 5, John identifies one command in particular:
“That we love one another.”
John says this is not a new command that his readers have never encountered.
It is something they have had “from the beginning.”
That language strongly echoes John’s first letter and Jesus’ teaching recorded in John’s Gospel.
Jesus told His disciples:
READ JOHN 13:34–35
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Jesus did not invent the idea of loving others.
The Old Testament had already commanded God’s people to love God and love their neighbor.
But Jesus gives His disciples a profoundly Christ-centered pattern:
“Just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.”
The life and self-giving sacrifice of Jesus now provide the defining example of Christian love.
John returns to this repeatedly.
First John 3 connects the command to believe in Jesus Christ with the command to love one another.
READ 1 JOHN 3:23–24
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That passage is especially helpful because John summarizes God’s command in two closely related responsibilities:
Believe in His Son Jesus Christ.
Love one another.
This does not mean those are the only instructions Christians ever need to obey.
John’s writings contain many moral commands and assume the broader ethical teaching of Scripture.
But it does show us the center of John’s thinking.
Christian obedience is fundamentally shaped by faith in Christ, allegiance to Christ, and Christlike love for others.
John’s “commandments” are not arbitrary religious rules by which we earn God’s acceptance.
They are God’s revealed will for people who belong to His Son.
This is why John’s language about commandments cannot be separated from his language about relationship.
Jesus said:
READ JOHN 14:15
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Obedience flows from love for Christ.
It does not purchase His love.
That distinction is essential for understanding what John means when he calls Christians to walk according to God’s commandments.
How Are Love and Obedience Connected?
One of the most important statements in 2 John appears at the beginning of verse 6:
“This is love, that we walk according to His commandments.”
That definition may sound surprising in a culture that often defines love primarily in terms of emotion, acceptance, affirmation, or personal happiness.
John defines love differently.
Love certainly includes affection and compassion.
But biblical love is ultimately governed by the character and will of God.
If God is love, then God—not culture and not personal preference—has the authority to define what love looks like.
We cannot separate loving people from obeying the God who defines love.
This means genuine love sometimes tells someone what they want to hear.
Sometimes it does not.
Sometimes love comforts.
Sometimes love encourages.
Sometimes love gives generously.
Sometimes love forgives.
Sometimes love confronts sin.
Sometimes love establishes boundaries.
The determining question is not simply:
“What would make this person feel loved?”
That can be a helpful question, but it cannot be the final question.
The deeper question is:
“What does faithfulness to God require love to look like in this situation?”
The rest of 2 John demonstrates why this distinction matters.
John is about to tell his readers not to provide support or endorsement to teachers who distort the truth about Jesus Christ.
Someone could object:
“Wouldn’t refusing hospitality be unloving?”
John’s answer is effectively that love cannot require disobedience to God.
Helping someone spread destructive falsehood would not become loving simply because it was done with good intentions.
Biblical love never requires us to disobey biblical truth.
At the same time, this principle must never become an excuse for cruelty.
John is not giving Christians permission to be harsh, arrogant, insulting, or unnecessarily combative.
The same apostle who fiercely protects truth repeatedly commands God’s people to love one another.
Truth and love are not competing virtues.
They belong together.
Love without obedience can become sentimental.
Obedience without love can become cold and self-righteous.
John calls Christians to a life in which truth, love, and obedience remain inseparable.
What Had They Heard “From the Beginning”?
John twice points his readers back to something they had known “from the beginning.”
In verse 5, he explains that the command to love one another was not something new that he had suddenly introduced.
Then in verse 6, he reminds them that this was the command they had “heard from the beginning.”
What beginning does John have in mind?
In John’s letters, this expression frequently points back to the beginning of his readers’ Christian experience—the apostolic message about Jesus Christ that they originally heard and believed.
First John provides an important parallel:
READ 1 JOHN 2:7, 24
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John does not direct Christians toward a secret teaching that appears later in their spiritual development.
He repeatedly directs them back to the message they received concerning Jesus Christ.
That message included the command to love one another.
This fits Jesus’ own teaching to His disciples.
On the night before the crucifixion, Jesus commanded His followers to love one another according to the pattern of His own love for them (John 13:34–35).
John later summarizes Christian obedience in similar language:
READ 1 JOHN 3:23
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Notice the two dimensions John brings together:
Believe in Jesus Christ.
Love one another.
Christian obedience grows out of the gospel the believer has received.
John’s readers did not need to discover a more advanced religion.
They needed to continue living according to the truth and commands they had received through Christ.
For John, spiritual maturity does not mean leaving the message we heard “from the beginning.”
It means allowing that message to increasingly shape the way we live.
This becomes particularly important when the false teachers appear in verse 7.
They claimed something contrary to the apostolic teaching about Jesus.
John’s answer to theological innovation is therefore remarkably consistent:
Remain in the truth.
Continue in the teaching of Christ.
And keep living according to the command believers received from the beginning.
Is John Telling Christians to Keep the Torah?
Because John says that Christians should “walk according to His commandments,” some readers may naturally ask whether John is telling followers of Jesus to observe the Law of Moses.
After all, the Old Testament repeatedly connects loving God with keeping His commandments.
Jesus Himself quotes commandments from the Law.
And John clearly believes that God’s moral will did not suddenly become irrelevant with the coming of Christ.
However, we should be careful not to make a jump that John’s context does not make.
John does not say, “Walk according to the Law of Moses.”
He says, “Walk according to His commandments,” and the immediate context identifies loving one another as the command particularly in view.
This distinction matters.
John certainly knows the Old Testament.
The command to love one’s neighbor was not invented in the New Testament.
Leviticus 19:18 commanded Israel to love one’s neighbor, while Deuteronomy 6:5 commanded Israel to love God wholeheartedly.
Jesus affirmed both commands and identified them as summarizing the Law and the Prophets (Matthew 22:37–40).
There is therefore genuine continuity between the moral will of God revealed in the Old Testament and the life God calls Christians to live.
But continuity does not mean that Christians have simply been placed under the Mosaic covenant as Israel was.
John’s own language points us toward Christ and the commands believers have received through Him.
Consider the way John describes Christian obedience elsewhere:
READ 1 JOHN 3:23
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John can speak about God’s “commandment” and then summarize it in distinctly Christ-centered terms:
Believe in the name of God’s Son, Jesus Christ.
Love one another as Christ commanded.
That is significant for interpreting 2 John 6.
John’s emphasis is not a return to Sinai as the governing covenant for the Christian life.
His emphasis is faithful obedience to God as people who belong to Jesus Christ.
This same pattern appears in John’s Gospel.
Jesus repeatedly speaks about His own commandments:
READ JOHN 14:15; JOHN 15:10–12
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Jesus does not present obedience as irrelevant.
Quite the opposite.
Those who love Him are called to obey Him.
But Christian obedience is now centered upon relationship with and allegiance to Jesus Christ.
The New Testament does not move Christians from obedience to disobedience.
It locates Christian obedience in our relationship with Jesus Christ under the new covenant.
That helps us avoid two opposite mistakes.
The first is lawlessness—the idea that because Christians are saved by grace, God’s commands no longer matter.
John clearly rejects that idea.
The second is placing Christians back under the Mosaic covenant as though following Jesus requires covenantal Torah observance in the same manner required of Israel.
John does not make that argument either.
Instead, he describes believers as people who know Christ, love Christ, believe the truth about Christ, and therefore desire to obey what God commands.
Grace does not eliminate obedience.
Grace produces a people who desire to obey God through faith in and allegiance to Jesus Christ.
So when John says, “walk according to His commandments,” we should not automatically substitute the phrase “keep the Mosaic Law.”
The immediate context instead calls Christians to a life of obedience shaped by the truth of the gospel and expressed especially through Christlike love.
How Does Jesus Define Obedience?
John’s teaching about commandments becomes even clearer when we return to Jesus’ words recorded in John’s Gospel.
Jesus repeatedly connects three realities:
Love.
Obedience.
Relationship with Him.
One of the clearest examples appears in John 14.
READ JOHN 14:15, 21, 23–24
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Jesus does not describe obedience as a way of convincing God to love us.
Instead, obedience is the response of people who love Him.
That distinction is essential.
Jesus does not say, “Obey Me so that I will love you.”
He teaches that those who love Him will desire to obey Him.
This means Christian obedience is deeply relational.
We are not merely checking religious requirements from a list.
We are following a Person.
We trust Jesus.
We love Jesus.
We recognize Jesus as Lord.
And therefore His words matter to us.
John 15 develops this even further.
Jesus connects keeping His commandments with abiding in His love, and then immediately identifies love for one another as central to His command.
READ JOHN 15:9–12
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The parallels with 2 John 5–6 are difficult to miss.
John 15: Keep Christ’s commands and love one another.
2 John: Love one another by walking according to God’s commands.
John is not inventing a new understanding of obedience in his letter.
He is applying what he learned from Jesus.
And Jesus Himself provides the ultimate example of what obedient love looks like.
His love was not merely spoken.
It was demonstrated through sacrificial action.
He humbled Himself.
He served.
He gave Himself for others.
And ultimately He went to the cross.
Christian obedience is not merely rule keeping.
It is a life increasingly shaped by loyalty to Jesus and modeled after the self-giving love of Jesus.
This also means we cannot separate Jesus as Savior from Jesus as Lord.
We are saved by His grace, not by our obedience.
But the Savior who rescues us also calls us to follow Him.
Does Obedience Earn Salvation?
If John places such strong emphasis on keeping God’s commands, another question naturally follows:
Does our obedience earn or maintain our salvation?
The answer is no.
John does not teach that sinners make themselves acceptable to God by successfully keeping enough commandments.
The gospel begins with what God has done for us through Jesus Christ, not what we accomplish for God.
John makes this especially clear in his first letter.
READ 1 JOHN 4:9–10
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The direction of salvation is important.
God loved us.
God sent His Son.
Christ dealt with our sin.
We receive life through Him.
Our obedience comes as a response to that saving grace.
We do not obey in order to become loved by God.
We obey because in Christ we have encountered the love of God.
This distinction protects us from legalism.
Legalism turns obedience into a means of establishing our righteousness before God.
The gospel tells us that our righteousness and acceptance are found in Christ.
But grace must not be confused with indifference toward obedience.
John refuses that error as well.
First John repeatedly presents obedience as evidence that a person’s profession of knowing God is genuine.
READ 1 JOHN 2:3–6
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John’s reasoning can be summarized this way:
Obedience is not the root of salvation.
Obedience is fruit produced by salvation.
That does not mean Christians obey perfectly.
John has already made provision for believers who sin by pointing them to Jesus Christ and His atoning work (1 John 1:9–2:2).
The issue is the direction of someone’s life.
A genuine Christian increasingly desires to live under Christ’s authority rather than treating His commands as irrelevant.
This also explains why obedience and assurance can be connected in John’s writings.
Our imperfect obedience is not the foundation of our salvation.
Christ is.
But a growing desire to follow Christ provides evidence that His transforming work is taking place in us.
We are saved by grace through faith in Christ.
The grace that saves us also begins transforming the way we walk.
So 2 John 6 is not a formula for earning eternal life.
It is a description of the life that flows from knowing and loving the One who gives eternal life.
Truth, Love, and Obedience Belong Together
By the time we reach 2 John 6, a pattern has emerged that helps us understand the entire letter.
John repeatedly brings together three realities:
TRUTH • LOVE • OBEDIENCE
These are not competing priorities.
They depend upon one another.
Truth Gives Love Its Direction
Without truth, love can become whatever we want it to mean.
We may begin defining love entirely by feelings, cultural expectations, or another person’s immediate desires.
But God’s truth gives love an objective foundation.
It tells us what is genuinely good.
It tells us who God is.
It tells us who people are.
It tells us what sin is.
And it tells us what God has done to rescue sinners through Jesus Christ.
Love Gives Obedience Its Heart
Obedience without love can become mechanical, proud, or self-righteous.
A person can become so focused on rules that obedience becomes primarily about proving personal faithfulness.
Jesus consistently rejected that kind of religious pride.
John instead connects obedience with love.
We obey God because we love Him.
And because we love Him, we desire to love the people He has placed around us.
Obedience Gives Love Visible Expression
Love cannot remain merely a feeling.
It eventually acts.
That is why John can define love in terms of walking according to God’s commands.
Obedience gives concrete expression to what love claims to believe.
Truth tells us what love is.
Love gives obedience its proper motive.
Obedience puts love into action.
This framework becomes extremely important in verses 7–11.
John is about to confront false teachers who deny the truth about Jesus Christ.
His readers will have to decide what love requires them to do.
Should love require them to welcome and support these teachers?
John says no.
Why?
Because love walks according to God’s commands, and God’s commands never require His people to participate in the spread of falsehood.
Second John does not force us to choose between truth and love.
It teaches us that genuine Christian love must walk within the truth God has revealed.
This is why John’s teaching is so relevant.
Some Christians may be tempted to emphasize truth while neglecting love.
Others may emphasize love while becoming hesitant to speak clearly about truth.
John refuses both options.
The Christian life is a walk in which truth shapes us, love motivates us, and obedience directs our steps.
The Gospel Connection
John’s call to obedience only makes sense when it is rooted in the gospel.
Christians do not obey God in order to become acceptable to Him.
We obey because God has already acted to save us through Jesus Christ.
The Christian life begins with grace.
God sent His Son.
Jesus came in the flesh.
He lived in perfect obedience to the Father.
He died for sinners.
He rose again.
And everyone who trusts in Him receives forgiveness and eternal life.
Obedience is not the price of salvation.
It is the response of people who have been saved by grace.
This is especially important in John’s writings because he continually connects love, obedience, and relationship with Christ.
Jesus says that those who love Him will keep His commandments (John 14:15).
John says that love means walking according to God’s commandments (2 John 6).
But both truths come after the greater reality that God first loved us.
First John explains that God’s love was revealed by sending His Son so that we might live through Him (1 John 4:9–10).
Our obedience is therefore a response to grace.
We do not obey so that Jesus will become our Savior.
We obey because the Savior who rescued us has also become our Lord.
That also means Christian obedience is deeply connected to the character of Jesus.
He does not merely command us to love.
He shows us what love looks like.
He serves.
He sacrifices.
He speaks truth.
He shows compassion.
And ultimately He gives His life for sinners.
Walking according to His commandments therefore means more than checking off religious duties.
It means increasingly becoming the kind of person whose life reflects the One we follow.
The gospel gives obedience its foundation, Christ gives obedience its pattern, and love gives obedience its heart.
What This Means for Us
Second John 5–6 gives Christians a practical framework for thinking about obedience.
It is neither legalistic rule keeping nor vague spirituality.
It is a life shaped by truth, motivated by love, and directed by God’s commands.
1. Do not reduce Christianity to belief without obedience.
John clearly cares about doctrine.
He warns strongly against false teaching and insists that Christians remain in the truth about Jesus.
But correct doctrine is not the end of discipleship.
Truth is meant to shape life.
Knowing the right things about Jesus should increasingly change the way we live for Jesus.
The question is not merely:
Do I understand Christian doctrine?
We should also ask:
Is that doctrine producing obedience in my life?
2. Do not reduce obedience to rule keeping.
It is possible to become so focused on rules that we forget the relationship at the center of Christianity.
John’s language protects us from that.
He connects obedience with love.
Jesus does the same.
The goal is not to become a person who merely knows a long list of commands.
The goal is to become a person who loves Christ and increasingly desires to please Him.
Christian obedience is relational before it is mechanical.
We follow because we trust the One who leads us.
3. Let God’s Word define what love looks like.
John’s definition of love challenges us whenever our culture defines love differently from Scripture.
Love cannot simply mean affirming whatever another person wants, believes, or chooses.
Sometimes love encourages.
Sometimes love comforts.
Sometimes love gives.
Sometimes love corrects.
Sometimes love establishes boundaries.
The question is not merely what feels loving in the moment.
The question is what faithfulness to God requires.
Love is not opposed to obedience.
Love is shaped by obedience.
4. Measure your walk by direction, not perfection.
John is not describing sinless perfection.
Christians stumble.
We fail.
We need forgiveness.
We need correction.
But the direction of the Christian life should increasingly move toward obedience to Christ.
A faithful walk is not a flawless walk.
It is a life that keeps turning toward Christ.
That gives believers both humility and hope.
We do not pretend we have arrived.
But neither do we become comfortable with a life that ignores Christ’s commands.
5. Test claims of obedience by the teaching of Christ.
Not everyone who talks about “keeping God’s commandments” means the same thing.
That phrase can be used to support very different theological systems.
John’s own context provides an important test.
Christian obedience must remain centered on Jesus Christ and consistent with the apostolic teaching about Him.
Any view of obedience that moves us away from Christ, distorts the gospel, or places another covenantal system above Christ’s teaching should be examined carefully.
The question is not simply:
Does this teaching emphasize commandments?
The deeper question is:
Does this teaching faithfully reflect the way Jesus and His apostles describe Christian obedience?
6. Remember that obedience should produce love.
John’s immediate emphasis is not ceremonial precision, theological pride, or public religious performance.
His emphasis is love.
That gives us a useful test.
Is our obedience making us more patient?
More compassionate?
More willing to serve?
More willing to forgive?
More faithful to truth?
More willing to sacrifice for others?
If our version of obedience consistently makes us proud, harsh, or self-righteous, something has gone wrong.
The obedience John describes should increasingly reflect the character of Jesus.
Key Takeaway
When John says that Christians should “walk according to His commandments” (2 John 6), he is describing a life increasingly shaped by willing obedience to God.
To “walk” means to live in a particular direction or pattern.
And in the immediate context, the command especially in view is that believers love one another.
John therefore brings together three realities that should never be separated:
Truth shapes what we believe.
Love shapes how we treat others.
Obedience shapes the direction of our lives.
John is not telling Christians that commandment keeping earns salvation.
Nor is he simply placing believers back under the Mosaic covenant.
He is describing the life of people who belong to Jesus Christ and therefore desire to live according to God’s will as revealed through Him.
We are saved by grace, not by our obedience.
But the grace that saves us also teaches us to walk in obedience.
That obedience will never be perfect in this life.
But it should increasingly become the direction of our lives.
We believe the truth.
We love one another.
And because we love Christ, we desire to walk according to His commands.
Dig Deeper: Trace Love and Obedience Through John’s Writings
One of the best ways to understand 2 John 5–6 is to trace the relationship between love, obedience, truth, and Christ throughout John’s writings.
John consistently refuses to separate these themes.
John 13:34–35
Jesus commands His disciples to love one another according to the pattern of His own love.
Consider: How does Jesus’ example shape the meaning of Christian love?
John 14:15
Jesus connects love for Him with keeping His commandments.
Consider: What does this reveal about the relationship between affection for Christ and obedience to Christ?
John 15:9–12
Jesus connects abiding in His love, keeping His commandments, and loving one another.
Consider: How do these verses help explain 2 John 5–6?
1 John 2:3–6
John describes obedience as evidence that a person’s claim to know Christ is genuine.
Consider: Why is obedience evidence of salvation rather than the basis of salvation?
1 John 3:16–18
John points to Jesus’ sacrifice as the model for love and calls believers to love through action rather than words alone.
Consider: What does this teach us about love becoming visible through obedience?
1 John 3:23–24
John summarizes God’s command in terms of believing in Jesus Christ and loving one another.
Consider: How does this passage help define what John means by God’s commandments?
1 John 5:2–3
John again connects love for God, love for God’s children, and obedience to His commands.
Consider: Why does John refuse to separate love from obedience?
Put these passages together and John’s pattern becomes clear:
We believe in Jesus.
We love Jesus.
Because we love Him, we desire to obey Him.
And that obedience expresses itself especially through love for others.
Christian obedience is therefore neither cold legalism nor vague spirituality.
It is a life shaped by relationship with Christ and increasingly conformed to His will.
An Important Distinction: Obedience Is Not the Same as Legalism
Because Christians are called to obey God’s commands, it is important to distinguish biblical obedience from legalism.
The two are not the same thing.
Biblical obedience begins with grace.
God saves us through Christ.
We receive forgiveness through faith.
Then, as people who belong to Christ, we increasingly desire to live under His authority.
Legalism reverses that order.
It treats obedience as a way of earning, securing, or proving our worth before God.
Biblical obedience says, “Because Christ has saved me, I want to follow Him.”
Legalism says, “If I obey well enough, I can make myself acceptable to God.”
John’s teaching does not support legalism.
But neither does it support lawlessness.
Grace does not make obedience irrelevant.
Grace changes the reason we obey.
We obey from acceptance, not for acceptance.
That difference changes everything.
Obedience becomes gratitude rather than payment.
Discipleship rather than self-salvation.
Love rather than spiritual scorekeeping.
And following Jesus rather than trying to establish our own righteousness.
Reflect: What Direction Is My Walk Taking?
John’s language invites us to examine the direction of our lives.
Consider these questions:
- Do I think of obedience mainly as a burden, or as part of following the Jesus I love?
- Are there areas where I know what Christ teaches but am resisting obedience?
- Is my understanding of love shaped more by Scripture or by what my culture currently calls loving?
- Am I more concerned with appearing obedient than actually becoming like Christ?
- Does my obedience make me more loving, humble, patient, and faithful—or more proud and critical?
- Have I confused grace with permission to ignore something God clearly commands?
- Have I confused biblical obedience with placing myself under requirements Scripture does not place upon Christians?
- Where is God currently calling me to take a concrete step of obedience?
John’s question is not whether we can claim to know God’s commands.
It is whether those commands are shaping the way we actually walk.
Questions for Personal or Group Study
1. Read 2 John 4–6. What relationship do you see between truth, love, commandments, and walking?
2. Why do you think John defines love in terms of obedience to God’s commands?
3. What is the difference between biblical obedience and legalism?
4. How does 1 John 3:23 help clarify what John means by God’s command?
5. Why is it important not to automatically equate “His commandments” in 2 John 6 with covenantal Torah observance?
6. How does Jesus’ command to love one another in John 13 shape John’s teaching in 2 John?
7. Can someone emphasize obedience while still failing to love? What would that look like?
8. Can someone emphasize love while ignoring obedience? What would that look like?
9. Why is direction more helpful than perfection when evaluating our Christian walk?
10. What is one command of Christ you need to put into practice more intentionally this week?
Remember
Second John does not describe Christianity as a choice between grace and obedience.
Grace comes first.
God saves us through Jesus Christ.
Then the people He saves begin learning to walk according to His will.
John also refuses to separate obedience from love.
To love God is to care about what He commands.
To love others is to seek their good according to God’s truth.
Saved by grace.
Grounded in truth.
Motivated by love.
Walking in obedience.
That is the pattern John gives us.
Not perfect obedience.
Not obedience that earns salvation.
Not obedience detached from Christ.
But a life increasingly moving in the direction of the Savior we trust and love.
So when John tells Christians to “walk according to His commandments,” he is calling us to something deeply relational:
Know Christ.
Love Christ.
Trust His Word.
And let that relationship increasingly shape the way you walk.
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