NT260 • Set 15
Discussion & Heart Check Questions
Small group discussion questions and accountability tools designed to help disciples grow in their love for God, connect with others, serve others, and share the gospel.
These questions were created to accompany the NT260 Discipleship Journal, but they can also be used by any small group, discipleship group, family, Sunday School class, one-on-one discipleship relationship, or individual studying John 3–8.
This Set’s Big Idea
Jesus is the Son of God who gives new life, satisfies the deepest thirst of the human heart, and calls people to believe His Word, receive His grace, and walk in His light.
As you read, watch how Jesus confronts religious confidence, welcomes outsiders, heals the helpless, feeds the hungry, offers living water, exposes unbelief, forgives the guilty, reveals Himself as the Light of the World, and declares that true freedom and eternal life are found in Him alone.
How to Use These Questions
These questions are a guide, not a script. You do not need to answer every question. The goal is to help your group engage Scripture, encourage one another, and take a clear next step of obedience.
Before meeting, encourage everyone to complete this week’s readings and record at least one observation and one application using PETS or another preferred Bible study method.
Suggested Small Group Meeting Flow
Use this as a flexible guide for a 1–1.5 hour weekly gathering. Adjust as needed for your group.
Connect, catch up, and celebrate how God worked during the week.
Pray and invite the Holy Spirit to teach through His Word.
Share PETS observations and applications from the week’s readings.
Work through selected discussion questions together.
Use Heart Check questions for honest accountability and encouragement.
Share prayer requests and close by praying for one another.
Leader Tips
- You do not need to answer every question.
- Select the questions that best fit your group.
- Keep the conversation centered on Jesus and practical obedience.
- Encourage everyone to participate, but never pressure anyone to speak.
- Make room for both interpretation and personal application.
- Handle conversations about doubt, shame, addiction, brokenness, and past failures with grace rather than condemnation.
- These chapters repeatedly contrast belief and unbelief. Avoid turning the discussion into debates over secondary theological issues. Keep bringing the group back to John’s primary purpose: helping people see who Jesus is and respond to Him in faith.
- Leave enough time for accountability, encouragement, and prayer.
This Set’s Readings
- John 3 — Jesus Teaches Nicodemus About the New Birth and God’s Love for the World
- John 4 — Jesus Offers Living Water to the Samaritan Woman and Reveals Himself as the Savior of the World
- John 5 — Jesus Heals on the Sabbath and Declares His Equality with the Father
- John 6 — Jesus Feeds the Five Thousand, Walks on Water, and Reveals Himself as the Bread of Life
- John 7 — Jesus Invites the Thirsty to Come to Him and Receive Living Water
- John 8 — Jesus Extends Grace to the Guilty, Declares Himself the Light of the World, and Offers True Freedom
NT260 • Set 15
Small Group Discussion Questions
Icebreaker
- Have you ever searched for something you thought would satisfy you, only to discover it didn’t? What did you learn from that experience?
Digging Into the Text
- John records conversations with Nicodemus, the Samaritan woman, a disabled man, a royal official, large crowds, religious leaders, and His disciples. Why do you think John includes such a wide variety of people?
- Nicodemus was deeply religious, yet Jesus told him he must be born again. What does this reveal about the difference between religion and genuine spiritual life?
- Jesus compares the new birth to the wind. Why is that comparison helpful for understanding the work of the Holy Spirit?
- John 3:16 is one of the best-known verses in Scripture. What does it teach us about God’s love, humanity’s need, and the way a person receives eternal life?
- Jesus says people love darkness rather than light because their deeds are evil. Why is coming into the light often difficult for people today?
- John the Baptist says, “He must become greater and greater, and I must become less and less.” What would that attitude look like in everyday Christian life?
- Compare Nicodemus in John 3 with the Samaritan woman in John 4. What differences do you notice between them, and what similarities do you see in how Jesus ministers to each?
- Jesus offers the Samaritan woman “living water.” What thirst do you think He is addressing, and how does He satisfy it?
- Rather than avoiding the woman’s sinful past, Jesus lovingly brings it into the light. What does this teach us about the relationship between truth and grace?
- After meeting Jesus, the Samaritan woman immediately invited others to come and see Him. What made her testimony so compelling?
- In John 5, Jesus heals a man who had suffered for thirty-eight years. Why do you think the religious leaders focused more on the Sabbath than on the miracle?
- Jesus repeatedly claims to have the same authority, works, and honor as the Father. How do these chapters build the case that Jesus is truly the Son of God?
- The crowds loved the miracle of the multiplied bread, but many rejected Jesus when He called Himself the Bread of Life. What does that reveal about the difference between wanting God’s gifts and wanting God Himself?
- Peter responds, “Lord, to whom would we go? You have the words that give eternal life.” Why is that such an important statement in John’s Gospel?
- Throughout John 7, people hold very different opinions about Jesus. Why does Jesus consistently divide people’s responses rather than simply impressing everyone?
- Jesus invites anyone who is thirsty to come to Him and drink. What kinds of spiritual thirst are people trying to satisfy apart from Christ today?
- When the woman caught in adultery is brought before Jesus, He demonstrates both mercy and truth. How does He avoid both harsh condemnation and careless acceptance of sin?
- Jesus declares, “I am the Light of the World.” How does that image help us understand who Jesus is and what He came to do?
- Jesus teaches that the truth sets people free, yet He also says everyone who sins is a slave to sin. How would you explain the kind of freedom Jesus offers?
- John 3–8 contains many of Jesus’ great invitations: “You must be born again,” “Come and drink,” “I am the Bread of Life,” “I am the Light of the World,” and “The truth will set you free.” What repeated invitation ties these chapters together?
- Across John 3–8, people respond to Jesus with belief, curiosity, resistance, confusion, hostility, or worship. Which response do you think best describes our culture today? Which response most honestly describes your own heart right now?
Leader Note
The central question throughout John 3–8 is not, “What miracle did Jesus perform?” but “Who is Jesus, and will we believe Him?” Every conversation, sign, and confrontation reveals another aspect of His identity. He is the Son of God who gives new birth, living water, bread from heaven, light for a dark world, truth that sets people free, and eternal life to everyone who believes.
Notice how John intentionally places very different people before Jesus. A respected Pharisee, a Samaritan woman, a desperate father, a disabled man, hungry crowds, skeptical religious leaders, a woman caught in adultery, and devoted disciples all encounter the same Savior. Their backgrounds are different, but their deepest need is the same. Each person must decide whether to trust Jesus or reject Him.
Be careful not to reduce these chapters to isolated moral lessons like “be humble like John the Baptist,” “share your testimony like the Samaritan woman,” or “don’t judge others.” Those applications matter, but John’s primary purpose is much greater. Every sign points beyond itself to reveal Jesus. The miracles are invitations to believe. The conversations expose the human heart. The repeated “I AM” statements reveal that Jesus is far more than a teacher—He is God the Son, worthy of faith, worship, and complete surrender.
Guide your group to see that belief in Jesus is more than agreeing with facts about Him. Throughout these chapters, many people admire His miracles, yet few truly trust Him. Genuine faith comes into the light, receives His grace, continues in His Word, and finds lasting satisfaction in Christ rather than in the temporary things of this world. Help your group continually ask not only, “What does this passage teach?” but also, “How is Jesus inviting me to trust Him more deeply today?”
Love God
- Which picture of Jesus in these chapters strengthened your worship the most: the giver of new birth, the Living Water, the Bread of Life, the Light of the World, or the One who sets people free? Why?
- Jesus repeatedly invited people to believe His Word before they fully understood everything. Is there an area where God is asking you to trust Him even before you see how everything will unfold?
- Where have you been tempted to look for satisfaction apart from Christ? How is Jesus inviting you to come back to Him as your deepest source of life?
- Jesus said those who continue in His Word are truly His disciples. Has your time in Scripture this week been marked more by routine, obligation, or genuine desire to know Jesus?
- If someone observed your priorities this week, would they conclude that Jesus is your greatest treasure and satisfaction?
Connect with Others
- Jesus showed both truth and compassion to the Samaritan woman and the woman caught in adultery. How can we reflect both grace and truth in our relationships instead of leaning toward only one?
- John the Baptist rejoiced when others followed Jesus instead of himself. Are there places where comparison, jealousy, or the desire for recognition has affected your relationships or ministry?
- Is there someone you need to encourage, forgive, welcome, or simply have an honest conversation with this week?
- Jesus welcomed people from every background. Are there people you tend to overlook, avoid, or quietly assume are unlikely to respond to the gospel?
Serve Others
- Jesus consistently noticed people others ignored. Who in your everyday life might need someone to simply notice, encourage, or care for them this week?
- What practical act of service could help someone experience the love of Christ in a tangible way over the next seven days?
- How can you use your time, abilities, or influence this week to point attention toward Jesus instead of yourself?
Share the Gospel
- The Samaritan woman simply invited others to “Come and see.” How does her example encourage believers who feel they don’t know enough to share their faith?
- If someone asked you what Jesus meant by being “born again,” “the Bread of Life,” or “the Light of the World,” which of those could you confidently explain?
- Who is one person in your life that may be spiritually thirsty or searching for hope? How can you intentionally pray for and move toward that person this week?
- What specific opportunity could you create this week to begin a spiritual conversation or invite someone to explore Jesus with you?
Closing Challenge
Jesus is the Son of God who gives new life, satisfies the deepest thirst of the human heart, and calls people to believe His Word, receive His grace, and walk in His light.
Throughout these chapters Jesus invites people from every background to come to Him. Nicodemus discovers the necessity of new birth. A Samaritan woman finds living water. A helpless man receives healing. Hungry crowds are offered the Bread of Life. The guilty receive grace. Those walking in darkness are invited into the Light. Some believe, while others walk away. Every chapter asks the same question: What will you do with Jesus?
Where is Jesus calling you to move this week—from religious routine to genuine faith, spiritual thirst to lasting satisfaction, darkness to light, fear to trust, self-reliance to dependence on Christ, or simply from knowing about Jesus to following Him more wholeheartedly?
Scripture to Remember
John 8:12
“Jesus spoke to the people once more and said, ‘I am the light of the world. If you follow me, you won’t have to walk in darkness, because you will have the light that leads to life.'” (NLT)
This verse captures the heart of these chapters. Jesus doesn’t merely give good advice or point us toward the light—He is the Light. Everyone who follows Him receives both direction for today and the promise of eternal life.
This week: Read this verse each morning, write it once in your journal, repeat it throughout the day, and ask God to reveal any area where He is calling you out of darkness and into greater obedience.
This Week’s Practice
Come to Jesus First
Throughout John 3–8, Jesus repeatedly invites people to come to Him for what they truly need—new life, living water, daily bread, forgiveness, truth, freedom, and light. This week, before turning to your phone, entertainment, work, food, or another distraction, intentionally spend five minutes with Jesus in prayer and Scripture.
As you do, ask yourself, “What am I looking to today for satisfaction?” Then consciously choose to seek Christ before seeking anything else.
Prayer Focus
Believing and Following Jesus
Pray together that God would deepen your faith in Jesus and help you find your satisfaction, freedom, and hope in Him alone.
- Thank God for sending His Son to give new life to everyone who believes.
- Ask the Holy Spirit to expose any area where you are still walking in darkness or relying on something other than Christ for satisfaction.
- Pray for a heart that continues in Jesus’ Word and follows Him faithfully each day.
- Ask God to help you show both truth and grace in your relationships, just as Jesus did.
- Pray for people in your life who are spiritually searching, asking God to draw them to the Living Water and the Light of the World.
Closing Prayer: Father, thank You for sending Jesus, Your Son, to give us new life, living water, the Bread of Life, and the Light of the World. Forgive us for the times we search for satisfaction in things that can never truly satisfy. Help us come to Christ each day with trusting hearts, remain in His Word, walk in His light, and experience the freedom only He can give. Fill us with Your Spirit so that our lives point others to Jesus, and use us to invite those around us to believe in Him and receive eternal life. In Jesus’ name, amen.
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