This devotion is based on the sermon: How to honor the mothers in our lives in ways God desires
Devotional
A few years ago, a hospice nurse shared the story of a middle-aged man who sat beside his dying mother’s bed, quietly holding her hand. He had flown in from out of state when the doctors said she had only days left. For much of their adult lives, their relationship had been polite but distant—filled with the usual check-ins but little depth. But as they sat in that quiet room, something shifted.
He leaned in and said, “Mom, I know I haven’t said this enough, but thank you. You worked so hard for us growing up. I never told you how much I admire your strength or how much I learned just by watching you.”
Tears welled up in her eyes—not from pain, but from hearing words she had longed for. The nurse later said it was one of the most peaceful passings she had witnessed, simply because those words—spoken with sincerity and warmth—had settled something deep in both their hearts.
Our words have incredible power to build up or tear down. When it comes to honoring mothers, our speech plays a crucial role. Simple words of gratitude, specific encouragement, and genuine appreciation can make a lasting impact. It’s not just about what we say but how we say it – our tone, timing, and sincerity all matter. Remember that the way we speak about and to mother figures shapes not only our relationship with them but also influences how others view and treat them.
Bible
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.” – Proverbs 18:21
Her children stand and bless her.
Her husband praises her:
29 “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world,
but you surpass them all!” – Proverbs 31:28-29
Reflection Questions
- What words of affirmation could you share with the mother figures in your life that you haven’t expressed before?
- How will you share them (in person, by phone, text, or letter)?
- Can you share them in the presence of your children, grandchildren, or others so that they may see what it is like for a child to bless their mother or husband praise his wife?
Quote
Men listen as we interact with our wives on a daily basis, we are discipling the boys in our home. The way that they see us treat our wives, the way that they see us treat their mothers, is going to play out in that future relationship with their wives, the mother of their children.
Prayer
Lord, help me use my words wisely to build up and encourage the mother figures in my life. Guard my tongue from negative speech and fill my mouth with life-giving words. Amen.
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